for those times when the strangest things come in handy

Our weekend away had arrived.  Soon 5 of us women would be piling into a van to head to our annual church retreat where we would spend time laughing, learning and most importantly, eating delicious meals we didn't have to cook.   

Gathering at our driver’s house, we lined up our suitcases to load into the back of her vehicle.  One suitcase - my sister’s - stood out due to it being the oh-so-attention getting shade of safety cone orange.  She admitted it was her luggage from over 20 years ago, but it had served her well and didn't show any wear so she’d never replaced it.   Mixed in with our other traveling bags of contemporary purples, blacks, tapestries and polka dots, we couldn't help but razz her a little bit that she might want to look into new luggage when we got back….

                That being said, we headed off and had a marvelous time.  As always, the weekend passed quickly and the retreat was over all too soon.  Before we knew it, it was time to return home.  Back in my friend’s van we and our belongings went on Sunday afternoon, our heads and hearts (and stomachs) full of all we had taken in over the past two days.  We chatted among ourselves going home, sharing stories the whole way, eager to get back to our families waiting for us.

                And then we heard the clunk.  And felt the lurch.  And realized we had to get off the road fast because, just as we were nearing our destination, we had a flat tire.

                Sighs of deflation were heard all around.

                To make matters worse, we were on a busy, crowded highway where the only place to pull off was a strip of macadam barely wide enough to be called a shoulder.  It was more like a “You’ll be lucky if you can squeeze your car in here; don’t try opening any doors” space.  But, pull off we did and sat there to assess our fate for a moment.  A few of us got out of the van to inspect said flat tire, but quickly realized we were taking our lives in our hands by doing so as the flat was on the driver’s side, which was only inches away from a steady stream of fully mobile cars going 60 miles an hour. 

                Back in the van, we called AAA, who promised to come help us but also promised it would be well over an hour before they would arrive.  Ugh.  All we could do was wait in the van on our cramped little strip of roadside.  The more we sat there with multitudes of traffic whizzing by us to our left, the more we felt like sitting ducks waiting to be plowed into from behind by someone not realizing we were at a dead, parked stop. 

                We knew we needed something.  A marker of sorts that we could put out behind our vehicle to let other drivers know to watch out for us.  Something that would get their attention and cause them to notice that our van was helplessly over to the side, to alert them to steer clear of us…..

                That’s the moment we remembered we were in possession of one very bright orange suitcase. 

                Upon that realization, a few of us tumbled out of the van, opened the back hatch and pulled my sister’s luggage to the front of the pile.  It was absolutely perfect ; the color was so bold and brazen that we put the piece at an angle right behind the flat tire.  Immediately we felt safer.  And a little ashamed of ourselves.   What we had originally advised her to replace was exactly what we needed right now.

                We did not get hit- fortunately- and the neon orange of the suitcase even alerted a passing truck driver that we were in need of assistance.  He stopped ahead of us, changed our flat and we were on our way home before AAA even had a chance to call back.  What could have been a major headache in our day turned out to be just a small interruption on our way home, and the rest of the trip was event free. 

I am not sure if my sister ever bought new luggage, but I’m glad she hadn’t prior to that trip.  God knew we were going to need what she had; He is that much in the details.  He can use the outdated things, the less-than-trendy pieces, and the not-so-much-like-all-the-rest parts of us to accomplish His purposes.  We don’t have to be the latest, the greatest, or the best in order for Him to use us.    We just need to be His.

All in all the weekend was a huge success, thanks to a bright orange suitcase and a very creative, all-knowing God.
               


God on Twitter



I opened my email inbox yesterday to find that I had a message with the subject, "God is now following you on Twitter!"  Even at 7:00 in the morning, it was funny.  I couldn't wait to find out more, so I opened the email, which read,

"God (GodTwitte) is now following your tweets on Twitter. A little information about God:

2 followers

1 tweet

following 377 people ".

Hmm...He wasn't following as many people as I might have imagined the Creator of the Universe to be keeping tabs on, but it was a start, I guessed.  After all, it's going to take a while to tag onto millions of people.

The standard Twitter email went on to inform me:

"You may follow God as well by clicking on the "follow" button on their profile. If you believe God is engaging in abusive behavior on Twitter, you may report God for spam.

God may not appear in your follower list. God may have decided to stop following you, or the account may have been suspended for a Terms of Service violation. "

For those of you who have a Twitter account, you'll recognize the format of this email that goes out to all account holders when someone new follows them.  Putting God's name in just makes for a humorous read, and a real good blog post. 

There was one more piece to the puzzle though.  Assuming the real and triune God would protect me and my beloved laptop from any viruses if I clicked through to God's profile because I just had to know what it said, I clicked on His heavenly little icon and here's what I got -

"Sorry, the profile you were trying to view has been suspended due to strange activity."

That was the icing on the angel food cake.

Okay,  there's just a whole lot of fun I can have making parallels with an email like that.  So let's dive in, shall we? I thought I'd do an instant replay of the text and add my own comments as to the truth or lie of it all...

God (GodTwitte) is now following your tweets on Twitter. A little information about God:  -  Correction.  There's a whole lot of information about God you can get your hands on- it's called The Bible and you need to read it if you haven't yet.  It's a best seller.
2 followers - Well, there's 5 in my household alone so there goes that fact.
1 tweet - Oh my.  He's got thousands of tweets for you.  In the Bible they're notated as verses.

following 377 people. - Wrong again.  World population - 6.916 billion and climbing.  He's following each one.

You may follow God as well by clicking on the "follow" button on their profile.  - No need to click on any button.  You can follow God quite easily by simply telling Him you accept His free gift of life given by His Son dying for you.  Then, let the following begin.....

If you believe God is engaging in abusive behavior on Twitter, you may report God for spam. - God will never, ever be involved in any kind of abusive behavior- He loves to give good gifts to His children.  Gotta give this one a big thumbs down and disregard it.


God may not appear in your follower list. - This statement reminds me of the times when we don't especially "feel" God near, or when we wonder if He's even listening.  Even though He may not appear to be following at times like that, rest assured He can't take His eyes off you.

God may have decided to stop following you, or the account may have been suspended for a Terms of Service violation. - Never.  God will never stop following you.  Furthermore, if you are really His child (see "accept free gift" above), you can never be suspended for a service violation.  Once His, always His.

And last, but not least (as a matter of fact, I think this one is the best yet) -
"Sorry, the profile you were trying to view has been suspended due to strange activity." - If you define strange activity as healing, raising from the dead, repairing broken relationships, miracles, and the like, then God may need to fit into the "suspended account" category for you.  God is not bound by the rules of this world, and realize that what may seem strange to some is hope and proof of God to others.  It all depends on who you're following, and where you're going.

I do not need God to follow me on Twitter.  I already am assured that He is with me every moment of every day because of a decision I made one night in February of 1981 to follow Him.  God had this "following" thing figured out way before now- as a matter of fact, He's been checking status updates since He put two people in a garden and communicated with them.  Now, that's Someone worth following.



soul rest

 
I had the privilege of being part of the book launch team for Bonnie Gray’s “Finding Spiritual Whitespace”.   This book is a much needed oasis that speaks truth into our hurried lives.  Bonnie weaves keen spiritual insights and revelations into her story of a difficult childhood which led to unexpectedly dealing with PTSD and the ravaging effect that had on her as a whole person.   She speaks from a deep well of experience, and relates definitive mile-markers of spiritual growth, where God divinely showed her how much her soul desperately needed to seek Him, to slow down, to rest.

She calls that “spiritual whitespace”.
I’ve also heard it referred to as “margin”.  You know – that extra room on the side of a lined piece of paper that is supposed to stay empty.  Have you noticed how that beautiful white, unfilled space on the page makes the whole thing more readable?  That is exactly what whitespace is supposed to do – in art, in music, in life.  As Bonnie tells us, if we don’t build it into our lives, if we don’t plan for it, if we don’t arrange our day to make sure it happens, if we don’t look for God along the way where He is showing up time and again, life will surely take over our agenda and our calendar and we will not naturally make room for Him in the process.  We must slow down, we must have eyes to see, we must let our soul feel His stir. 
If your soul needs rest and if you want to find ways to incorporate God into your every moment, then Finding Spiritual Whitespace is a must read for you.  The book also has questions at the end of each chapter and journaling prompts, to further your study alone or with a friend(s).   
Enjoy!

under the mess

It was early spring; winter was finally past with nicer weather here to stay.  Not wanting to be inside any longer, I was anxious to get "out there" and start clearing up the gardens around our house.  One sloping bank in particular was a mess of weeds and downed limbs, as well as being home to mounds of leaves from the previous fall.  My husband had planted tall spikes of forsythia along the upper edge of the bank, and I was eager to free the budding branches so eventually they could bloom in all their glory.

I attacked the overgrowth with gusto.  I pulled, tugged, threw to the side, cleared and pruned to my heart's content.  Happy with my progress, I was almost to the end of my crusade when a spot of color caught my eye. All movement stopped for a moment. I wasn't sure what I was seeing because it was nestled so deep in the underbrush.  Only after I had a chance to move the surrounding debris was I able to see the source of the color - the first forsythia bloom of the season.

 
I stood there in awe. This perfect beauty, produced from the branch that had been buried beneath the muck and the mire.  Flower bursting forth from the limb that had been denied all but a little light.  Apparently, the one with the most junk dumped on it blooms first.
 
Sounds like something out of Life 101.
 
We all have weights bearing down on us in our lives; no one escapes that fact.  Some come for a season or a time and then leave; others make their nests in our days and roost.  This overgrowth, this debris, these heartaches and pressures and unwanted circumstances that threaten to bury us and squeeze out the light in our lives - they don't come to weigh our heart down for no reason.  God allows them into our lives to help us to grow, to flourish, to bloom.  We usually don't recognize them as beneficial fertilizer (because we're too busy trying to make them go away), but God knows they are exactly what our soul needs in order to produce the sweet blossoms that represent Him changing a life.
 
Life exists under the mess. It's there for a reason. It's the mess that provides the nutrients for our growth. 
 
So keep calm and bloom on.   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

new (in)courage Community Groups forming today!

 
 
Happy Monday! And, for being a Monday, this is one is filled with fun news!
 
 The awesome online "beach house" for women, (in)courage, is having registration for their new and existing small groups today. You won't want to miss being a part of one of these online communities - they are resources of encouragement and discipleship like no other. 
 
 There is a group for almost any taste and talent- you can check out the complete listing of what's available here. Click on over and sign up for one!
 
The lovely Jennifer Frisbie and I are co-leading a group called
(in)couraged to Explore the Writing Life.  I am honored and blessed to be a part of this group; it's taking me outside of my comfort zone and it will connect me to other great women writers who share the passion of using their gifts and talents for Him. I desire to be an encourager for these women, and to learn from them as well as we share our lives and stories.
 
No matter what you love to do or are passionate about - they've got a group for it.  And after you head on over there and sign up, I'd love if you came back and left a comment telling me which group you registered for so I can be the first to cheer you ON!
 
Now go on, get out of here and head over to (in)courage, and have a great Monday!

plans and priorities

Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails.
Proverbs 19:21
 
 
This is so true.  I get up in the morning with So. Many. Plans.
 
Plans in my calendar.  Plans on my mind.  More scribbled on paper.
 
Plans I alone have made, yet before God I can't help but acknowledge that only He knows my day.  He has it planned.  And His plans could very well not be mine.
 
Sometimes the sheer volume of tasks on My List overwhelms me and I think, "How will I get this all done?"  I can feel my heart race and panic set in. 
 
Truth is, often there really aren't enough hours in the day - for my plans.
 
The best advice I've read on priorities comes from the book Lies Women Believe and the Truth that Sets Them Free by Nancy Leigh DeMoss.  In it she writes, " The Truth is all I have to do is the work God assigns to me.  What a freedom it has been for me to accept that there is time for me to do everything that is on God's 'to do' list for my day, my week and my life!"  I love that concept.
 
I'm betting that God's to-do list for me looks way different than mine.  Think Mary vs. Martha.  Yeah. That.
 
Plans. Lists.  Pressures. Commitments. They all threaten to manipulate my day and thrust me headlong into my next 24 hours before I'm even ready. Why am I letting them dictate my schedule? Where is my priority? When will I remember that simply sitting at Jesus' feet with my Bible, a journal and some quiet time is not a waste of time, but lifeblood for my soul?  I cannot think of a better investment in my day than to give Him a part of it.  The moments I give Him are necessary in order to get those other things done.  (cue My List.)
 
Breathe soul, breathe.  There is time enough in this day to do what God wants me to do.  And the only way I'm going to figure out what those things are is
 
to ask Him.
 
to listen to Him.
 
to spend time with Him.
 
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and all these things will be added to you as well.....
 
Sounds like a plan to me.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


waiting for perfect

I'm not sure what I've been waiting for, but I do know that I've been waiting for something to be perfect before I write on this blog. 

Maybe it's the topic. 

Or the words.

It could be my mood that I'd like to be just right, but then again, maybe it's my hair. (which is far from perfect even though I just got a 60$ haircut. Don't ask. That's another blog post entirely.)

At any rate, I decided to break the silence and stop waiting for perfect and just write. If I wait for perfect to arrive, the world is going to slip by without me because it's broken and in no way can manifest perfection.

Sounds bleak, doesn't it?

Believe it or not, there is good news for all of us in all of this.

The good news is that God doesn't wait for you to be perfect, doesn't wait for me to be perfect. He wants us just as we are, with our imperfect hearts, lives and souls. He's already made us perfect through Jesus.  No more waiting. It's done. It's so simple, really. And it doesn't get much perfect-er than that.

So go ahead.  Jump into whatever it is that's calling your name long before perfect comes down the pike.  Long before you've got your ducks in a row, planets aligned, checkbook balanced.  Tomorrow those things won't be.  Because, you see, in this world perfect never comes and stays.

Yet perfect, in Jesus Christ, is already here.  And will last forever.

What are you waiting for?